Hello folks, from a newbie --
I have a dining room table with a lacquer finish, which I believe probably was also waxed. From day one, it never cleaned up well, always seemed smeary and dull. We use the table constantly and even a simple wipe with a damp cloth would bring about the cloudy, smeary look. I finally decided to do something about it.
So I started with the idea of cleaning off any wax, and then re-amalgamating the lacquer (because it had a messed up area where I ran a steam iron on the table with what turned out not to be enough layers of protection between table and iron).
I brushed on lacquer thinner, which got rid of the messy area and some smaller scratches, but the table top was still not beautiful. I ran across the Wood Whisperer's video on rubbing out a lacquer finish and decided that's what I would do.
Mistake #1: I brushed on additional coats of lacquer. The video had spray lacquer on a small box, but I figured brushing it on a table top couldn't be that different. I missed the part about using wood filler. I didn't have bare wood anyway, so I shrugged and moved on.
Mistake #2: The lacquer didn't flow nicely, but the can said not to thin it, so I didn't. I had a lot of brush strokes when dry. Then I ran across info here saying it's OK to thin even if the can says no. Oops. No worries, it just meant more sanding for me, right?
Mistake #3: I started wet sanding with 320 grit on a sanding block. It was slow going and spotty, and hard for me (chronic illness means my muscles fatigue very easily). So I switched to a palm sander.
Mistake #4: The video said to sand at 320 grit until the whole surface was dull. I stopped frequently to check my progress with the palm sander, and still had shiny spots, so I kept going. Realized a small area of the table seemed to be getting lighter. Quit sanding, cleaned the surface. The shiny spots are all in the pores and fissures of the wood. I don't think I sanded down to bare wood, but I definitely took some color (maybe the original lacquer was colored?) out of a quarter-sized spot.
Now I'm crying uncle. My thought is to hit it with lacquer thinner again and see if I can get the color evened out by reamalgamating the finish again. But then what? I'm not even sure I still want to pursue the rubbed out finish, because I quickly hand-sanded with my progressively higher-grit discs to see how it would look and it's…weird. And I'm guessing the shiny spots in the pores will look bizarre no matter what finish I do. I do not want to go to bare wood. No I do not.
If I can salvage the de-colored spot, maybe I should just hit the whole table with 320 grit and then do one or two more coats of lacquer but thinned so it flows better and call it done?
Argh. Thanks so much for any advice you all can give.