RichardA Posted April 26, 2020 Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 At 6:45 this morning, our member Freedhardwoods, lost his wife. Exactly one day after their 38th wedding anniversary. She had been ill for quite some time, and was in a hospital bed in their living room. He was holding her hand as she passed to the next adventure. If it's in your heart, reach out to this guy, he needs support for his loss. 1 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark J Posted April 26, 2020 Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 @freedhardwoods, I am so saddened to hear this news. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treeslayer Posted April 26, 2020 Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 Just so sad there are no words that I can say, my prayers are with you @freedhardwoods 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chestnut Posted April 26, 2020 Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 I"m sorry for your loss @freedhardwoods my prayers are with you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom King Posted April 26, 2020 Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 I can't even imagine what it would be like without my Wife. So, so sorry. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
..Kev Posted April 26, 2020 Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 @freedhardwoods, your family is in my thoughts and prayers! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post wtnhighlander Posted April 26, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 This is an event that I can't image going through. @freedhardwoods, I pray that you may receive the strength to carry on, and the peace in your heart. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Woodenskye Posted April 26, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 26, 2020 @freedhardwoods. My condolences for your loss. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mick S Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 My sincere condolences, @freedhardwoods. Wishing you strength and support. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Coop Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 Man, so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post pkinneb Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 Sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post freedhardwoods Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 I'm exhausted from taking care of her as she grew weaker this past week, but sleep won't come. She deserved someone much better than me, but put up with me all these years. A couple weeks ago I started thinking about Richard going through the same thing, so I messaged him a few times. Thanks to everyone for the thoughts and prayers. 13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Fagyver Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 Oh gosh man, I have no words, no wisdom on such a subject. Though I'm just some stranger on the other side of a screen, please know that as I prepare to shut my eyes for the night, my thoughts will be with you. I have to say... I'm brand new here. I'm sure you guys see a lot of newbies, and who knows if I'll stick around; I sure don't. The reason I registered here and not any of the other sites I've come across of this same "genre" or whatever is the genuine connection to and care for each other you all convey. I imagine it would be apparent to anyone who spent a few moments perusing the site, and I just want to say that it's not lost on me. I'm incredibly grateful to witness such a thing. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dave S Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 @freedhardwoods as another newbie I don’t have the history and personal relationship you do with the others here on the site, but suffering is something that unites us all regardless of the depth of our relationship. Loosing a wife of 38 years is an acute pain that catches everyone’s attention. While you have my condolences and prayers, you also have my respect and deep admiration. For though I do not know you, I can see the humility in your belief that she deserved one better than you. I can see your strength as you did not turn away from death, but for her sake stood face to face with it. I can see a person so mired in grief they cannot sleep reaching out to thank those who are commenting. I can see why your wife chose you. May you slowly live through the grieving process and find some light on the other side of this darkness. While I already find you inspiring, I join the other wood talk members in placing my digital hand on your shoulder so that you will know you have many, even newbies, who are with you. God bless brother. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lewisc Posted April 27, 2020 Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 I'm sorry to hear that. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legenddc Posted April 27, 2020 Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 Man I hate seeing these threads. I'm so glad you were able to be with her, especially now in this craziness. Please take care and if you need anything don't hesitate to ask. This is a great group and there will always be someone willing to help. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tpt life Posted April 27, 2020 Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 Mr Freed, I hope and pray you heal and can rest in the memory of her. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post freedhardwoods Posted April 27, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 I really appreciate everyone and everything said in this thread. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
collinb Posted April 27, 2020 Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 11 hours ago, freedhardwoods said: I'm exhausted from taking care of her as she grew weaker this past week, but sleep won't come. She deserved someone much better than me, but put up with me all these years. A couple weeks ago I started thinking about Richard going through the same thing, so I messaged him a few times. Thanks to everyone for the thoughts and prayers. prayers here, too. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minnesota Steve Posted April 27, 2020 Report Share Posted April 27, 2020 My condolences... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post freedhardwoods Posted April 28, 2020 Popular Post Report Share Posted April 28, 2020 I'm used to being "dad"; the guy that my kids come to for help or advice. For the past few days they have been taking care of things, including me. I'm really proud of my kids. 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RichardA Posted April 28, 2020 Author Popular Post Report Share Posted April 28, 2020 And you should be. Without you and their mother, there would never been good guidance. And your help in leading them, made them what they are today. They stand tall for their parents, who could ask for more? Bless them and you for raising good young'un's. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davewyo Posted April 28, 2020 Report Share Posted April 28, 2020 You have my deepest sympathies. I can't think of anything more than what others have said. Hang in there. Let us know if you need anything at all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chip Sawdust Posted April 28, 2020 Report Share Posted April 28, 2020 @freedhardwoods We haven't crossed paths here that I recall, but you certainly can add my prayers and sympathy from the group. Life is full of ups and downs, and this hits to the bottom of the barrel. God bless you and thank God for your kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freedhardwoods Posted April 30, 2020 Report Share Posted April 30, 2020 Again I would like to thank everyone in this thread for the words of encouragement. I took a step into my new world today by paying some bills. My wife did that for the last 30+ years. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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